Hello fellow men, my name is Kurt and on this site I will share with you my advice on how to get girls.
First, let me give you a small backstory on my success with women. I’ve been unsuccessful in getting girls for a long time. Somehow I never got past that ‘cool nerd friend’ phase. In my desperation I’ve tried countless dating advice books and courses with moderate success. After having a few successful dates with girls I slowly but steady started to learn the tricks of the trade on getting girls. Over the course of a few years I built confidence in my dating and most importantly myself and now I can give other men free, honest advice on how to get girls.
Just be aware that there isn’t some dark, secret trick, product, book or cologne that can instantly multiply your success with women. Not all women are the same, so there isn’t a secret formula. It mostly has to do with your perception, confidence and approach which you can build over time. I will start out by giving you some solid pointers with which you can build your foundation on having success with women.
Get social
So you’ve got your Twitter, Facebook, IRC, IM etc. all locked down. Great. Now shut down your computer, call up a friend and go apply those social media skills outside. Catch a tan, have a drink and enjoy engaging in live conversation. For some house mice this would already be slightly out of their comfort zone, but this can only benefit you in the long run to not come off as socially awkward when you are going to approach girls. If there’s a birthday or another event coming up that you’re normally not that fond of decide to join the group for once. The easiest way of getting in contact with girls is mutual friends. You don’t have to be the party or conversation starter, but just being there is a step in the right direction.
Embrace your strong points
Compose a list of all your strong points like you would do in a job interview, if you’re not sure ask someone close to you to help you out. I’m not talking about your WoW leveling skills, but things like your sense of humor, optimism, your great cooking etc.. Be self-aware and focus on these strong points as this will help you build confidence later on. A unique talent will set you apart from other men and can spark interest with women. Don’t overdo it either like constantly tapping yourself on the chest because your John Mayer rendition on the guitar is so awesome, girls will eventually get sick of you.
Get a fresh haircut and outfit
Something that always boosts my confidence is getting myself a new haircut or trying on some fresh clothes. Something about walking out the door all fresh really triples my swag (yeah I just said it) and makes me feel confident when approaching girls. If you’re not that fashionable yourself ask a friend to help you in picking a new outfit in which you’ll still feel comfortable (no need for small-sized v-necks).
Stay cool and patient
I’ve seen many men trying too hard to get that pretty girl and having all of their methods backfiring because they were too desperate in getting her. I can’t stress enough that patience and coolness is the key here. Don’t follow the swarm of men hitting hard on that girl, but instead act cool , sit back and try catching her attention in other ways (I will expand on these methods some other time). I know that some men eventually have success in getting girls by being clingy and in their face constantly, but I think that this willpower breaking approach will not be beneficial later on.
So here are my first few pointers to go by in your girl hunt. Keep in mind that I’m no dating guru or anything, just some guy who’s had success in dating the last few years. Keep watching this spot as I will expand on many subjects like internet dating, approaching women, first dates etc. I will keep bringing you fresh advice on how to get girls.